About the Book
A frank and funny look at what to do when together is too close
Two’s company, especially for those who love each other. So what happens when—due to retirement, working from home, or even running a business together—spouses find that being in the same space all the time is awkward, complex, annoying, and just plain challenging? How can partners coexist without co-exhausting each other?
Cynthia Ruchti and Becky Melby know all too well how adjusting to a new, all-the-time closeness can cause the bliss of marriage to form blisters. Drawing from their experiences, and from men and women across the country in the same situation, the authors take a deep breath and dive into the root causes. They dig into what God’s Word has to say, and they offer practical tips for learning the spiritual, emotional, relational, and even physical steps that can help readers replace irritation with peace.
For any couple who wants their home to be a refuge of peace and serenity for all—not just themselves—and who wants to know they aren’t alone in the mental and physical claustrophobia of too much togetherness, Spouse in the House is a vulnerable, charming, and pragmatic breath of hope.
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Although my spouse is not always in the house…I have experienced moments when I feel like it’s a bit harder to spend long periods of time together. As I type this review, Steve and I are 18 days away from our 20th wedding anniversary, which honestly blows my mind. We are still very much in love but sometimes I think we take each other for granted. This book approaches this issue that many wives face due to retirement, sickness, working from home, pandemics, etc. in a very useful but funny way. I adored the writing style of both authors and found myself nodding in agreement and giggling out loud at times.
The main theme of the book that I found was taking note of the status of your marriage and finding ways to keep it running smoothly. I took many great tips from it even though I’m not quite at the “he’s home all the time” stage yet. I also loved that it focuses on putting God in the center, which is extremely important for a healthy marriage.
This was one of the best marriage books I’ve read in a long time and I recommend it for any married couple who have been together for a while.
I received a copy of this book from the publisher/authors to review. All thoughts and opinions are my own.
About the Authors
Cynthia Ruchti tells stories hemmed in hope through her novels, novellas, devotions, and nonfiction, and through speaking for women’s events, retreats, writers’ conferences, and workshops. She draws from 33 years of experience writing and producing the 15-minute daily radio broadcast, “The Heartbeat of the Home.”
Ruchti’s more than thirty books have garnered reader, retailer, reviewer, and other industry awards. She serves as Professional Relations Liaison for American Christian Fiction Writers, is a founding board member of the Deliver Hope ministry and is part of the worship team at her church. She’s also a literary agent with Books & Such Literary Management.
Ruchti and her husband, Bill, live in the heart of Wisconsin, not far from their three children and six grandchildren.
|Becky Melby has authored more than twenty novels and novellas. Spouse in the House is her first non-fiction book release.|
The Melbys have four sons and fifteen grandchildren and make their home in southeastern Wisconsin. When not writing or spoiling grandchildren, she may be found touring the country with Bill in their camper or on their Honda Gold Wing motorcycle.
Find out more about Becky Melby’s books at beckymelby.com or follow her on Facebook (becky.melby.9) and Instagram (@beckymelbybooks). She also shares short blog posts each Friday on the Fill My Cup, Lord page on Facebook.